The year was 2009.

I was living in San Francisco’s Mission District, running a small audio production business. Scott was a promising young artist on the other side of the country. He reached out to our team about mastering his upcoming album “Smoke Stack”.

It was a pleasure working with this guy, and over the course of countless emails sent back and forth, we eventually became friends. We wrapped up his album and he began working on the next.

Our team loved his sound (by this time he had already surpassed even Bob Marley on itunes!).

Well, as many of you know, I have a restless spirit. An opportunity to move to NYC presented itself in 2010. I jumped at the chance, but was quickly hit with a good dose of reality. It was the peak of sweltering summer, and finding an apartment was much more difficult than I thought.

The Let Down

I had already committed to doing Scott’s next album. I was confident that I had streamlined my process enough to pull it off – even during a major transition such as this.

Well I was wrong. Apartment hunting was exhausting, and the humidity was oppressive. Instead of just apologizing to Scott and backing out of the project, I assumed I could rely on our friendship – and deliver some rough “preliminary” versions just to tide him over.

I didn’t want to let him down…and at the time, giving him something felt better than nothing.

Some days went by, and eventually Scott responded about the mixes he was sent. However, this time he called instead of the usual email. I knew something was up.

He expressed his concern about the rough sound, even though I had assured him that it would be polished and finalized once feedback was received. (Previously, I had always made sure to get him the cleanest, most balanced preliminary versions I could.)

Something was off, and it was clear to him.

To his credit, Scott was quite calm and diplomatic about everything. He apologized and told me that his team wanted to take the project elsewhere. I understood.

We never heard from him after that.

A Valuable Life Lesson

I realized that if I had a mildly difficult conversation with him – simply let him know timing wasn’t good for this album – he would have still brought his future projects to us. The relationship could have been salvaged. In business, as in life, that’s what it’s all about, right?

Relationships.

Life is not a transaction.

So, instead of hurting him a little with a simple truth, I ended up hurting him a lot by promising something I probably shouldn’t have.

Letting people down in life may be inevitable from time to time, but there are ways to dramatically soften the blow. A little preventive maintenance goes a long way.

In truth, I think Scott outgrew our humble little studio anyway. He’s still out there pluggin’ away – one of the most talented, hardworking artists in the business.

(By the way, even after all that, he still recommended us to an up-and-coming friend of his. I think that’s a testament to what a good guy he really is.)

Anyway, I like to think he’d get a kick out me sitting here on a beach after all these years. I’m on the other side of the world, and Stick Figure is still providing the soundtrack to my life.

Thanks, Scott.

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Quite literally, it’s bananas.

Okay, enough of the punny stuff. It really does amaze me how quickly they go. Sometimes my siblings come over and I notice that they, too, seem to love bananas. Must be genetic.

Now, I may live an interesting life, but my breakfast routine is about as mundane as it gets. Each morning I have a simple bowl of oatmeal with a banana. If I feel like splurging, I *might* throw some blueberries on top (it’s rare).

More or less, this is how I’ve started my day for over 20 years. However, we live in quite a remote location. It’s great, but the nearest store is about an hour away. We tend to wait weeks between trips, and buy in bulk when we go.

So, a few days ago, I noticed there were only two bananas left. My wife is nursing a baby right now. I figure she needs these bananas more than I do. So I ate my oatmeal sans banana for the past few days.

The thing is, I woke up this morning and the bananas are still there.

I didn’t count on the fact that, knowing I was on a 20 year banana-and-oatmeal streak, my wife had the same thought I did. She saved the bananas for me.

In my mind, this is what marriage is all about – or at least it should be. It‘s not a one way road. It’s a partnership, and partners look out for each other.

She is better than I in this regard, but at least this time I got it right.

So…what are we going to do with these old bananas?

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By Nathan Allen

Single people ache for marriage

Married people, to be single

Poor people want the luxuries of the rich

The rich, the simplicity of the poor

Light skinned long for dark

Dark skinned long for light

The jobless hurt for work

The working despise the jobs they have

Young people can’t wait to age

While the old wish they could go back

It almost seems

There’s no point in longing

Perhaps the solution

Is to try to be more content

Where you ARE

And somehow

Not let it get in the way

Of where you’re GOING

– Nathan Allen

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By Nathan Allen

Remembering Mr. Wilson…

“A good teacher is like a candle – it consumes itself to light the way for others”

– Mustafa Kemal Atatürk

Walking down the empty hall by my niece’s classroom today, I couldn’t help but think back to my own time in school.  I was suddenly hit with the realization that the last 15 years of my life probably wouldn’t have been possible if it weren’t for one particular teacher.  How had I missed this before?

Mr. Wilson was the brunt of many kid’s jokes in Jr. high school.  A short, slender man with nicotine and coffee-stained teeth, he was quite eccentric – and he never tried to hide that fact.  He almost had an air of snootiness to him, though looking back, I think he was just an older man who had become very particular and set in his ways – not uncommon as we all age, I think. 

What really struck me today was not just the impact he had on me, but also how much he and I actually had in common – even all those years ago.  You see, we both got picked on a great deal at that school.  In his case, it was just done behind his back.  Kids can be monsters, and my entire post-elementary school career could be looked back on as proof. 

However, thankfully, what we also had in common was passion – passion for whatever we chose to do in life.  I can recall seeing and admiring this, even as a young boy.  You see, we’re not the type of people to do something just because we can or should.  We are both a very deliberate and passionate type of person, and will do whatever it is to the best of our abilities – because every atom of us demands that we do.  In fact, I’d venture to say that once an idea takes hold of people like us, it’s almost impossible to not take action.  For the sake of our mental well-being, it simply must be done.

Mr. Wilson was our Geography teacher, and this is where his true passion lied.  He was not one to sit at home and read books about these exotic locations around the world – he actually lived them.  He spoke about his travels with great conviction and unending enthusiasm – it seemed that he knew how to pronounce all of the country capitals of the world…just as a local would!

All this seemed to be lost on most of the kids, but there I was – the shy, awkward 12 year-old with practically no friends.  What I lacked in companionship I made up for with a boundless imagination and thirst for his adventurous stories.  However, I was too reserved to ever tell him how much I appreciated his class each day – the very same class the “cool kids” seemed to despise. 

Mr. Wilson’s Legacy

Here I am all these years later, having had some of my own adventures around the world.  I started a travel / culture website, and it has grown far beyond me.  It is a community of thousands of like-minded individuals-true admirers of beauty and culture-and I just wish Mr. Wilson could see what he helped inspire all those years ago.  That was a time before Internet technology, and I’d love for him to see how this technology has enabled me to travel independently, and full time.  I’d like to think he’d get a kick out of that. 

Teachers: Your Students are the “Silent Appreciators”

90% of the time that I post photos and stories on Facebook, I have the same people “liking” and commenting on them.  This can give me the false impression that these are the only people who are seeing my posts.  However, once every few months, I somehow manage to inspire those “silent appreciators” to visibly “like” something – thereby showing me they are still out there following along.  I must say, it’s a great feeling to know that you haven’t lost this connection with people in your life, especially as you begin to reach many more over time. 

My message to you teachers is this: 

As you know, we students don’t always tell you how important you are to us.  Please know that at least *some* of us, even after all these years, haven’t forgotten the lessons you taught us, the stories you shared, and the good example you showed us at that young, impressionable stage in our lives.  Perhaps we neglected to tell you these things when we had the chance, but we will never forget who you are and what you did for us. 

At the end of the day, children may be our future, but you teachers are the ones shaping that future.

…and to Mr. Wilson specifically, from myself and perhaps thousands of others, I can finally say:

Thank you.  Thank you for sharing your passion with me, for showing me that a life of grand adventure was not out of reach to a painfully awkward kid like me.  Thank you for continuing to fight for our education, even when we didn’t seem to appreciate it…or for that matter, you.

Nathan Allen

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PS…I’m not sure if Mr. Wilson is still around to read this letter, but I hope you’ll share this with the teachers in your life, and even consider writing to thank a teacher that had a big impact on YOU.  Teaching is truly a labor of passion  – and unfortunately one that comes with very little compensation. 

Let’s give a little back, and remind our teachers the difference they are making in the world 

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By Nathan Allen

El Nido, Palawan. My Favorite Place in the World…

El Nido means “the nest” in Spanish, and once you set foot here you understand where the name comes from – it’s a circular cove protected by rocky cliffs.  In all, I stayed here for two months.  Spotty wifi and routine daily power outages weren’t enough to keep me from this little slice of heaven-on-earth (my place didn’t have a generator, but most places midrange and up do). 

On the island of Palawan, Bacuit Bay is accesible by a 5 hour bus from Puerto Princessa, where there are many flights coming from Manila.  I believe you can also take a more pricey charter flight directly.  Soon Puerto Princessa will have its own international airport, so when you factor in the national airport coming to El Nido as well, it becomes clear that the island of Palawan will be overrun with tourists in the next few years.  Now is the time to see this tropical hideaway! 

Palawan is a wild and scenic place – the stuff dreams are made of!  El Nido has it all – you can go kayaking, island hopping, snorkeling, camping, or you can just simply RELAX in paradise.  Short on time?  Check out “tour A” for island hopping.  Hopefully the weather will cooperate, because this tour has some beautiful scenery. If you have more time, I recommend getting away from the crowds and finding some peace and quiet of your own.  If you rent a kayak you can easily head out to your own scenic island for a day – or even an overnight trip.  Hammocks can be purchased in the town proper. 

To date, there is no international ATM (how this is possible, I have NO idea), so bring plenty of CASH.  The more expensive restaurants do take credit cards, but I believe they charge a fee.  *It IS possible to get cash from the gas station at the pier-side of El Nido town.  They will charge your credit or debit card and then give you your cash.  I believe there is a 7% fee for this, but that is a small price to pay if you ask me.  Just go early, because they can run out of cash!

My First Real Snorkeling Experience

In this poscard-perfect paradise you’ll find crystal clear water which is perfect for swimming and snorkeling.  As mentioned before, island hopping via “tour A” is your best bet on limited time, but if snorkeling is your focus, you might check out some other tours as well. Ask the guides and tour operators which one they recommend.  I had actually never tried snorkeling before, and I was quite blown away when I tried it here!  I found myself swimming next to sea turtles on a few different occasions – right in front of the place I was staying!  The photo on the bottom right was taken during a kayaking trip to “Helicopter Island”.  From El Nido beach this is quite a journey, especially on a hot day like this one.  The advantage of doing it on your own is that you can go in the late afternoon when all the island hoppers have left.  It’s cooler then of course, and you can have the beaches and snorkeling all to yourself! 

I Had to Pinch Myself to Make Sure I Wasn’t Dreaming.

Where is the Best Sunset in El Nido?

Photography enthusiasts won’t be disappointed – some of the most dazzling sunsets in the world can be found here in El Nido (though I had to be very patient while waiting for them).  Look for a slightly cloudy day, because no clouds = boring sunset photos. However, also make sure it’s not too cloudy.   Basically, good luck!!  Haha.  I found the best spots for sunset were Corong Corong beach (near Roro bus terminal) and Las Cabanas beaches, the former which is about a 1.5km walk from the city center.

Corong Corong beach is much more of a locals area, and cheaper accomodations can be found here.  Las Cabanas is further, so you can take an overpriced trike, or do what I did and rent your own motorbike for 100 pesos per hour.  I found a place on the left just on the outskirts of town when walking to Corong Corong beach.  Ask for Moses. The sunset in the main part of El Nido (“the nest”) is actually blocked by rocky cliffs, but those cliffs are beautiful in their own right, so don’t be too disappointed.  You can also walk the beach all the way down past El Nido Corner restaurant and enjoy a peaceful sunset at Caalan as well.  Great place to take photos!

Overnight Camping in Bacuit Bay

I was fortunate enough to meet some travelers in El Nido who wanted to head out to our very own island for overnight camping.  All of us pitched in to pay some local fishermen to take us out and drop us off on the beach.  Of course you will want to negotiate the price, as well as make sure they will come and get you the next day!  You may not have cell service out there, and don’t count on electricity. 

We had a great Filipino host who helped us cook fresh fish right on the beach.  We were lucky enough to have a “paddle board” with us as well.  I took the board out late that night under the full moon.  The water was so calm and clear, I could see the corals beneath me in the moonlight as I slipped silently through the water.  It was a very surreal and peaceful experience.  The board rental is a bit pricey for the budget-minded traveler, but well worth the experience if you ask me.  Just be careful when paddling over the sharp coral.  Boards can be rented from “Artcafe” in El Nido town. 

This was my “bed” for the night, and my view in the morning.  I recommend a large, quality hammcok, and a at the very least, a sheet to guard against mosquitoes!  Something light will do just fine.  

Making Friends With Jellyfish On My Solo Kayaking Trip

I also wanted to explore El Nido on my own, so I went out on a solo kayaking / snorkeling trip a few days later.  I decided to try and lay flat on my stomach on the kayak and keep my shoulders and face over the water, so that I could float effortlessly over the amazing reefs + and still have my face (and mask) in the water. I dubbed this “snorkelacking”.  It  enabled me to see more of the deep-down reefs, while having the added bonus of not drowning (win!).

It worked amazingly well until I accidentally floated into a HUGE patch of jellyfish. I panicked and tried to push myself up on the kayak, which ended up flipping me into the water (with my backpack and flip flops on). No big deal, luckily I kept everything in tight ziplocks, and somehow managed to avoid the jellyfish (this time).  Just so you know, the jellyfish are quite tiny and are hard to see.  After coming out of the water tingling the first few times, I realized that I was swimming through them.  It’s not really painful at all, but if you just look for them near the surface as you snorkle, you can avoid being stung.  

Later I came across some local squid fishermen, and proceeded to impress the living daylights out of them with exactly 2.5 words of Tagalog. Haha.  They invited me to have an early dinner with them, and after so generously repairing my flip-flop which has just broken, they cooked us fresh-caught squid and rice right there on the beach. It was the best meal I’d had in the Philippines so far.  See the photos below.

After that I did some more snorkeling and came across a massive cuttlefish, and some giant sea turtles. Finished up by paddling out to sea to relax and watch the sunset over the islands, where eventually a couple in another kayak came out and did the same.  We sat there, bobbing gently on the South China Sea…with an increasingly incredible fiery-orange and red sky before us. Soon the moonless night invited all the stars to come out and play, and with each stroke of the paddle home, a frenzy of glittering phosphorescent plankton said “hello”. I tell you, El Nido is pure magic.

El Nido Is Here To Remind You That Life Is Good. VERY Good.

Another nearby paradise is “Nat-Nat beach”, across the water from El Nido. I got my Filipino nickname here.  I am a big fan of Nat King Cole, as well as being named Nathan, of course.  My local friends took me out fishing for the day, and we stopped here to eat lunch and relax.  There were no people here but us and a local caretaker who lives nearby.  Sunset on the way home was incredible, and we (they) caught dinner, so that was nice.  Haha.  By the way, if you rent a kayak, make sure you inspect the paddle very carefully.  On my solo trip, one end of the paddle broke off in the water!

Las Cabanas & Nacpan Beaches

Recommendations

I found a traditional Filipino house called a “bahay kubo” right on El Nido beach.  It’s called “Jov’s Inn”, and can be found joining walls with Balikaw restaurant right on the main road at El Nido beach.  Before you read too far though, just know that this place is much more of an “authentic” traditional experience.  That means by western standards it is PRIMITIVE.  No AC, and no flush toilets.  The smaller room facing the water has an attached bathroom, but the other two rooms do not (there is a common C.R.).  If you are looking for a more traditional hotel or resort, read further down the page. 

The simplicity of Jov’s was very appealing to me for part of my stay, and the family running it were very nice and accommodating.  They will invite you to eat with them, which is customary, but if you accept and are there for many days, try and contribute and/or cook something yourself as well.  It’s a great experience.   People tend to come here and stay a LONG time, so keep checking in with them on availability. 

Peak season in El Nido should be late December – March, and prices and availability will reflect that.  Below you can see the family and some new friends as well.  As you’ll notice, the view from my balcony could not be beat.  What a place to work!  Speaking of which, I recommend using a Globe Tattoo USB if you want decent wifi here.  It gets a much better signal than any wifi I tried to use at various restaurants.  Smart Bro doesn’t work there, or at least not well.  That’s what I was told. 

“The Alternative” Inn, El Nido

What a great view of paradise! As you can see in the photos, people come the bar / restaurant and enjoy the views for hours!  The family who runs it are very nice. On recommendation, I tried both the teppanyaki chicken and the banana heart curry. Excellent!  I loved having a cold fruit shake and working there on my computer during hot days (they have wifi). Tell Boyet at the bar that Natnat says hi!!  Well, I will be back eventually anyhow.  El Nido really puts a spell on you. Did I mention they have decent priced accommodations here as well? Book on Agoda HERE to reserve a room!

Treetops Guesthouse

This peaceful oasis is away from El Nido, and near Corong Corong Beach.  Travelers RAVE about it.  They offer two private bungalows made of traditional materials, and at a medium price range.  Included is a small TV and private bathroom. You can dine here with a stunning ocean view.

Mobile: +63 918 355 2836
E-mail: treetopelnido@yahoo.com

Cadlao Resort

If luxury is what you’re after, you’ll find it here.  A stunning property with lush gardens and an infinity pool overlooking the sea.  High-end dining does not disappoint. You can book through Agoda HERE

Due to demand, I recommend booking rooms in El Nido online…check out Agoda!  It’s always worked out great for me.  Click below!

Balay Tubay Bar & Grill

(*Update!* Sadly, I just received news that Balay Tubay is now closed.)  This is a true hidden gem in tourist-ridden El Nido. Locals love this place, and the cover bands NEVER disappoint. They highlight the true versatility of Filipino musicians, with vocalists belting out everything from Queen to ACDC (and all VERY impressively, I might add). A great place for beers with friends and locals. Note all the colorful local handicrafts adorning the walls.  Also check out Pukka Bar.  Great spot for live music also, but with a lot more tourists. 

Midtown Bakery

Mainit na PandeSol po!!  In my opinion this is the best bakery on the island of Palawan!  Go in the morning for fresh hot bread (that’e the translation).  Very cheap, and VERY delicious.  If you happen to be celbrating a birthday party you can order a decent cake here as well.  If you are a foreginer they will love it if you speak some Tagalog.  Mah EEnut nah pahn-DEE-Sall (From an American’s perspective).

Coco Bar, Las Cabanas

I love this place. It’s great to come here to escape the crowds in El Nido.  It’s nothing but a tiny shack by the water, but they serve the best (and cheapest) calamari, rice, and iced tea meal combo!  I don’t even LIKE iced tea, and it was GOOD.  Seriously, can’t be beat.  The people working there were very nice, and again, the prices are almost too good to believe.  If you think conditions are right for a great sunset, head to Las Cabanas IMMEDIATELY, as this place had the best sunset I saw during my 2 months stay (check one of the photos below). 

I sat in amazement on the beach as a very adventurous old Italian woman popped out of the water with her snorkeling mask on and sat next to me.  She told me this was by far the best sunset she’d ever seen.  The two of us just sat gazing out over the water in appreciation.  It was quite an experience.   Next time I visit I think I’ll stay here.  It’s not as cheap as Corong Corong or a lot of places in El Nido town, but it is more clean, secluded, and the extra money seems to be worth it.

Help Protect El Nido.

In closing, I do hope you enjoy this rugged paradise as much as I did!  I am concerned about the strain put on the environment by the recent influx of tourists.  Please be mindful to not step on any corals or leave any trash – do try to enjoy these islands responsibly!  The city collects an “environmental fee” from all island hopping tourists, but there is concern about where that money actually goes.  If you notice something “fishy”, please speak up and report it!  I hope the government realizes the importance of preserving El Nido’s natural treasures.  That way they will continue to draw tourists and be enjoyed for many years into the future. 

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I looked up photos of the Philippines on the Internet many months before I ever came.  I came across a travel blog that featured Camiguin island, and I knew I had to see it for myself!  I lived in Cebu City at the time I took my trip to Camiguin.  I was lucky enough to score a 500 peso ($13 USD) promo ticket each way through Cebu Pacific airlines. 

I woke up at 4AM to catch a taxi to the airport, but in the spirit of this adventure I decided to take a motorcycle taxi (habal habal) instead. It was a long trip over to Mactan island as the sun came up.

I was nervous about taking this small plane, but the flight was as smooth as can be! The views of the islands from above were not too shabby, I must say.

This plane route is brand new…the island was only accessible by boat previously. I was amazed how quickly we had to drop down from the sky to make the landing, and wondered how many times these pilots have even actually done it. Only 3 planes a week, for 2 months since the route began. No problems at all!  Excellent flying, I must say.

 I wasted no time renting a motorbike for my 4 days on the island. I don’t have much of a budget for my long-term travel, so I find that renting my own motorbike instead of paying for transportation saves me a lot of money.  It also makes the whole experience much more exhilarating and adventurous for me.  It appeals to my sense of freedom – and I thrive on that!

However, if you are concerned for your safety, I definitely recommend getting a guide and/or paying for transportation.  You can feel good knowing that the money is likely going to the driver’s family, and then back into the local economy of Camiguin. 

KATIBAWASAN FALLS

The map they gave me at the airport was a bit misleading, but eventually I did make it to beautifulKatibawasan falls.  (On the way I took a wrong turn and ended up at a beautiful resort where I stopped and cooled off by the pool.  I love “happy accidents” like that!)

I believe these falls are the most accessible, and by far the most popular in Camiguin.  Sometimes in the Philippines I can’t believe what I’m seeing is real, and as I arrived, my first glimpse on the left was one of those times!  Can you believe this place?  This is definitely the kind of scene I always dreamed about. 

It’s 250ft high, and reminded me of Yosemite falls back home in California.  On the right you can get an idea of how tall the falls actually are, even though the top is still cut off in this photo!  Swimming here on a hot day is very refreshing, and hiking around the area you can also find orchids growing.  It’s truly a sight to see. 

OLD CHURCH RUINS AND SUNKEN CEMETERY

The next day I continued touring the island on my motorbike. Here are some ruins from an old Spanish church from the 1500s. I believe it was destroyed by an eruption in the 1700s. I’m kind of a history nerd…I love the fact that here I am very likely walking in the explorer Ferdinand Magellan’s footsteps.

Nearby is the “sunken cemetery”, which I believe sank into the sea during the same eruption. Apparently snorkeling over it is a really incredible experience, and unfortunately the ONLY thing I didn’t do while here. For some reason what I chose to do instead was take a 2km hike straight up the side of the volcano during the heat of the day (and with all my gear on me). Brilliant, especially when I stubbed (or sprained?) my toe on the way back down.  Ouch. 

People go CRAZY for the NBA here in the Philippines. Sometimes out in the provinces they can’t speak any English, but that doesn’t stop them from running up to me yelling “Kobe Bryant!!”  They have makeshift basketball hoops all over the villages, and even out in the jungles.  At 6ft 2 inches, I can’t count how many times they have joked about me joining their teams.  With these old knees??

This a nice clear view of “Hibok Hibok” volcano that I found on my motorbike trip. Near Catarman.  The island has both beautiful black (volcanic) AND white sand beaches.  Just after this was when a wasp decided to sting me in the neck while going 60kmh on my motorbike.  That was a surprise! 

ARDENT HOT SPRINGS

The next day I headed to Ardent hot springs to (ironically) cool off. It’s summertime already in the PI, and VERY hot. I usually don’t enjoy manmade stuff like this too much, but I must say that I love this place!  The staff was quite friendly and I met some locals that wanted their photo taken:)

TUASAN FALLS

Katibawasan falls might be the most popular on the island, but my favorite is Tuasan falls.  After Ardent hot springs I journeyed deep into the mountains to try and find this place, which turned out to be slightly challenging. Totally worth it once I made it, though! 

When I first arrived, I had the whole place to myself.  There’s really nothing like being in such a magical place, alone with your thoughts.  I have been fortunate to experience this at 4 different stunning waterfalls in the Philippines so far. 

I guess what I loved about Tuasan falls was the isolation and natural beauty.  It’s a bit of a trek to get there, and they hadn’t yet put any shops or tourist facilities nearby.  Isn’t it stunning?

Eventually a few locals did come by for a swim, and they were really nice, of course.  That’s something I have noticed about far-flung and beautiful natural places.  If you run across people out there (and I mean anywhere in the world), they are always very nice people!  I have never proven wrong with that theory, not even once. Eventually I got tired of watching other people swim, so I decided to give it a try.  Surprise!!  It’s freezing.  Well I shouldn’t have been surprised…but maybe the hot springs right before had spoiled me.  Haha. 

It was nearing sunset, so it wasn’t very hot outside anymore.  I only lasted a few minutes in the water, but I’m glad I made myself do it!   For various reasons, I think this might be my favorite waterfall in the Philippines…but I don’t want to build it up too much for you.

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SNORKELING AT THE GIANT CLAM SANCTUARY

It’s tricky to find this place on your own if you’re traveling solo. There didn’t seem to be a sign, but maybe that’s a good thing. If you have a map, just use other landmarks around there and stop and ask somebody when you feel you are close.

The road down the beach is rough, but beautiful. When I arrived, I was really struck by the place. By far the most beautiful beach/area I had been in Camiguin (White Island came later, but I still think it’s a tie).

Here is a typical “sari sari” (store) in the Philippines, at least outside of the big cities.

It’s kind of like a drive-through, but you just walk up to the window instead. I suspect it’s for economic reasons, but rural Filpinos usually buy supplies like shampoo and laundry soap in small single-use pouches that are draped over hanging wire (kind of like laundry hanging out to dry).

NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCE IN THE LAND OF THE GIANT CLAMS

I paid for admission and noticed how nice and helpful the people running everything were. Later I was led out into the water by my guide. I assumed if I wasn’t able to touch the bottom, there would be a boat to hold onto and rest, or at least a flotation device to keep me from drowning. I’m quite sure my entry fee provided a flotation device, but for some reason I wasn’t given one. I swim with no problems, but I am very lean, with hardly any body fat.  That means in deep water, I sink more easily. It’s much harder for me to stay afloat than people with even a little body fat (fat floats, muscle sinks).

My guide had some small flotation device with HIM, so after flopping around for a bit and getting tired, I informed him that I needed to use it. He looked at me with a bit of shock, and told me he would “be right back”. Then he proceeded to swim off WITH the flotation device, leaving me flopping around in the water. Haha…I was in disbelief. I didn’t want to put my feet down and risk damaging any clams/corals…though I couldn’t touch the bottom even if I wanted to.

Luckily I had enough energy to find a small mound of sand which enabled me to drop my foot and get my nose and mouth out of the water so I could catch my breath.  He came back with an extra device and I then I got back to enjoying the tour.  Whew!

As for the experience itself, I absolutely loved it.  The massive clams were beautiful and fascinating, and when we ventured out into to deep water (10 meters) it was quite awe-inspiring. I’ve never been snorkeling in water that deep. It really was exhilarating, and the giant corals and various sea creatures really amazed me.   Please note that this isn’t my photo.  I didn’t have an underwater camera, so I found this picture (on the right) HERE.

My guide was very nice and informative, and I’m sure now they are much more careful about providing guests with floatation devices, regardless of how well they can swim. I suggest paying extra for flippers, because they will help you move through the water faster and stay afloat if you choose to not take a flotation device with you.  I have swam my whole life, but never was certified to dive or learn any techniques to help me float.  This is a goal of mine for my next trip:)   Highly recommended, this place was spectacular. 

WHITE ISLAND

Every day I was here it rained at least some of the time, and Hibok Hibok volcano was always obscured by clouds, making it much less photogenic. The last day ALWAYS works out perfectly for me, though. It’s like magical clockwork.  I knew I needed a clear view to photograph “White Island”, and I got it!

It’s basically a small sand bar out in the water, and it is known as the “crown jewel” of Camiguin. I was hoping to split the cost of the boat journey with other tourists, but I waited around as long as I could, and nobody came. So I got my own private boat…but told the boatman I wanted to stay on the island late to take photos. He reluctantly agreed.

What an incredible place!  I walked out to the edge of the “island” and then continued very far into the sea, because the water was only about a foot deep.  Eventually another sand bar popped back up out of the water resulting in the picture below. 

The only two fisherman parted ways as the sun dropped lower and lower. In a few hours this “island” would be swallowed by the sea…I stayed here until well after dark, it was just my boatman Gerald and I. I used the Tanduay that I brought to barter for some Bisaya language lessons…we became fast friends (as is the case with a lot of my taxi and trike drivers and I), and I hope to see him on my next trip.

As the locals say, I’m sure I will “come again to Camiguin”.  I loved the warmth of the people and sense of adventure on this island.  What a great introduction to Mindanao!  There is so much more to see.  Next time, next time. 

Sunriser Pension House

If you’re a backpacker and looking for something on a real budget, this place had the cheapest room I ever found in the Philippines.  I loved the older couple who run it, they were truly unforgettable!  I just had a simple fan room, and for 150 pesos ($3.80USD) a night, I really can’t complain!  I was impressed with the place, especially considering the price.  There isn’t too much information about it online, so I hope I’m remembering the name correctly.  Once in the main town of Mambajao, just ask the locals and they should know where it is.  It was very close to the public market. 

Action Geckos Dive & Adventure Resort

This is a nice midrange place, and it’s a bit more secluded if you’re looking for a real getaway. The food is not as cheap as some places on the island, but it is a good value, considering how nice the place is. You can organize a boat trip from here to White Island as well.

I took this photo while talking to the manager at the bar. They have different rooms and rates depending on what you’re looking for. The manager talked to me about another hotel his family owns in Sipalay I believe…ask him about it, I’m pretty sure each room has it’s own music them (jazz, metal, rock n’ roll…etc)

If you’re looking to book a room here and find more info, I recommend going through Agoda HERE

Paras Beach Resort

If you’re on a proper vacation and are looking to spend a bit more money, you can check Paras out.  It’s very centrally located, and also very close to the dock with boat trips to White Island.  Amenities include a full restaurant, TVs in the rooms, billiard tables, swimming pool, and ping pong.  You can book through Agoda HERE.

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Filipinos: Think, Think, THINK!!

-By Nathan Allen

When I was in the Philippines, a friend of mine said “Nathan, you think too much”.  Actually, I heard this from a few Filipinos.  Really?  I mean, I know I tend to analyze things, but “thinking too much” is precisely I how I dreamed up a way to (modestly) travel the country for a year – then write an in-depth article on Filipino culture (an article that Filipinos seem to really appreciate). 

Filipinos:  I am asking you to think MORE. 

Eleanor Roosevelt said “Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people.”  Sadly, perhaps due to colonization and other factors (I’ll get to these later), the Philippines may have established itself as a country full of “small minds” – and by that I mean people that were intentionally discouraged from being ambitious, and kept from their potential.  Those in power wanted to keep it that way, and to some extent I believe it’s still the same today.  The masses (who I’m addressing in this letter) are encouraged to keep consuming products and stay focused on (and distracted by) trashy, mindless TV and gossip.  I’ve seen it happen in the US.  It’s good for the economy, but bad for the culture (it makes things easier for a government to manipulate its people and keep them powerless).

CONSUMERS AND COPYCATS

The Philippines seems to be a country full of consumers and copycats.  What do I mean by that?  Media consumption – TV, radio, and Internet…and it’s all designed to manipulate you one way or the other.  Encouraged through the media is shopping – you’ve got to have the latest shoes, bags, and phones.  Otherwise, your value in society isn’t very high. 

Just like in the US, it’s a very shallow, endless cycle of consumption, but Philippines, what are you producing?  What are you contributing to the world in terms of original literature, art, and music?   From what I’ve seen, I think you have a LOT to offer…

You are widely known to be some of the best cover-artists in the world.  You can recreate almost any song – sometimes even better than the original!  Pinoy vocalist Arnel Pineda becoming the lead singer of the iconic American band “Journey” is a good example of this.  You’re such gifted musicians and vocalists, and your grasp of the English language is impressive – so where are your own musical contributions?  I know you have some classic Filipino songs, but I’m talking about international hits (and Fil-Am artists don’t count). 

Filipinos, perhaps hundreds of years of colonization have left you holding back your talent…and feeling like you don’t have a “voice” to speak up with – that your opinions don’t matter, and have no value.  That is understandable (given your country’s repressive history), but we live in a different world now, and I hope you can begin to take the first few steps away from that oppressive colonial past.  The way I see it, for you, the sky is the limit.

LIFT YOURSELVES UP, BUT DON’T FORGET WHO YOU ARE

Now, with your growing economy, you are heading in the same direction as many wealthy western countries.  You are “modernizing”, and that appears to be a good thing.  Do you know what the irony is, though?  In our countries, the “higher standard of living” is not what you might think.  Most of you have plenty of quality “social time”.  The amount of time we have to reflect and enjoy life with friends and family is shockingly little.  Unlike most of yours, our families are broken and very disconnected.  In the “developed” world, we seem to be losing our humanity – we barely make eye contact when we’re out in public!  Your family-oriented culture and sense of connectedness is something that you REALLY have going for you in the Philippines. 

In our countries we work too much, are completely stressed out, and have countless new diseases and psychological disorders that I believe are popping up because of life in our hectic modern world.  A therapist is practically a requirement for life in any large American city.  Filipinos, do you even know what a therapist is?  No?  Good!    The point is, these disorders (just like therapists) are rare in the Philippines.  This seems to be the price we pay for being “advanced and developed” nations.  The point is, I do hope you can break free from this “colonial” mentality, but aside from that…

Filipinos: Don’t try to be more like us, try to be more like YOU.  I believe what the the world needs now is more you, not more us.

In my last article about Filipino culture, I mentioned how a few people in Manila seemed to be ashamed to speak Filipino with me.  I was saddened by that; I hoped they would be proud of their culture.  I got the impression that they admired me so much – just for being white!  When I would go through security anywhere in Manila, I was the only one who wouldn’t be searched.  I seemed to get a free pass, again, because I was white.  That was something I loved about Cebu and the Visayas…there, the security searched me just like everybody else.  It was fair.  In general, people down there weren’t impressed with my white skin.  If I was going to impress them, I would have to earn it.  They were proud, and I loved that.  I don’t mean to promote regionalism here; I just would love to see all Filipinos develop that sense of cultural pride. 

Truly the “Pearl Of The Orient Seas”

Filipinos (from north to south), please know that your culture and who you are is something unique and special in the world – something precious that’s rapidly disappearing, in fact.  Please don’t be afraid to be proud – I know you prefer to be modest, but I don’t believe pride and modesty have to be enemies.  I believe you can be proud without thinking or acting like you are better than others.  Be proud of your culture; your heritage.

Philippines, I hope soon you will become known for being more than just a friendly country with affordable opportunities for foreign-owned businesses.  My hope is that you will gain a reputation as a nation of innovators and entrepreneurs…as creators.  I have never seen so much talent be so under-utlilized.  With your stunning beaches and lush mountain provinces, you are also poised and ready to take the world’s tourism industry by storm.   However, your ecosystem is delicate, and it needs to be protected and preserved.  I’d love to see your country pave the way for environmentally-friendly tourism. That would be an innovative and much needed contribution to the world!

At the very least, I hope you can share the Filipino way of life with the rest of the world, because we could certainly learn a lot from it.

The “Crab Mentality” – Is It Helpful?

Please put an end to the “crab mentality” – lift each other up, don’t pull each other down.  If your country is ever going to rise up and share its treasures with the world, you will have to foster an environment of praise and support for your countrymen. 

Filipinos:  You are some of the most talented, soulful, and generous people I have ever encountered. Please know that you DO have a voice, that your ideas DO matter, and that your contributions (whether they be musical, artistic, or intellectual) WILL be felt. 

Believe it, and the rest of the world will, too. 

Oh!  One more thing.  If you work in government, do not EVER forget your responsibility to represent the PEOPLE – a people and a culture with a lot to offer the world.  YOU represent them on the world’s stage. Do NOT let them down. 

– Nathan Allen

* UPDATE * – I have explained exactly what I was doing in the PHL and responded to your comments in a follow-up post.  Please click HERE to read it!

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